It is often said that men’s brains are in their pants. Whilst women may nod knowingly and men smile sheepishly at this generalisation, it could indeed prove a very useful analogy in understanding how to improve our sex lives. Much has been written recently about emotional intelligence, but what about erotic intelligence? It is a much forgotten fact that our greatest sexual organ is our brain; it is responsible for our fantasies, for the release of feel-good hormones and for registering sexual attraction. Surely it therefore follows that only by fully engaging our brains in sex can we really hope to have a fulfilling sexual experience.
If we are to develop our erotic intelligence, we need to understand what makes us tick sexually. Once we are able to acknowledge our own sexual needs and learn how to communicate them effectively, we can each start to get the sex that we want and we deserve.
Be: Coaching organises workshops for men, women and couples to help them to begin to think differently about sex. Using an innovative combination of coaching exercises, talking therapy and sex education, we help participants to take an in-depth look at their sex lives and to discover new ways in which to meet their sexual needs and expand their horizons. These workshops are not for the faint-hearted or the shy and retiring types, as they require a full and frank examination of all facets of one’s sex life. Neither are they intended for those simply seeking sexual titillation; whilst there is much laughter and amusement during the sessions, participants will be challenged to think about sex from a psychological perspective and will need to dig deep into their psyche and emotions in order to fully benefit.
Our next seminar takes place on Saturday 10 March in Hampton Court, Surrey, and is intended for couples who want to unlock their erotic potential and improve their sex lives. During the workshop, couples will have the opportunity to examine their sexual needs, uncover deep-seated sexual beliefs, explore fantasies, learn the art of mindful touch and develop their own sexual maps. Couples can share as much or as little as they like with the other participants in the workshop, but everyone will need to be prepared to be open and honest with their partner in order to make the most of the workshop. The cost for this 6-hour workshop is £150 per couple if booked before 29 February, and £200 per couple for bookings received after this date. A similar workshop will be organised in Central London for singles in the near future.
For those who want to benefit from this novel approach to sex coaching but are unable to attend the workshop, Be: Coaching also organises 1 or 2 day tailor-made intensive sessions, during which the couple have the coach’s undivided attention to help them reach their sexual goals. For those who prefer a more private discussion of their sex lives, this could prove the perfect environment!
For further information, please see: http://www.londonsexcoach.co.uk/phdi/p1.nsf/supppages/4564?opendocument&part=8
